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TheNanny612 and the Three Avatars

I wrote a post regarding my avatar change on Collective-Thoughts. This post is a continuation of that. The avatar I had chose at the end of that post didn’t work out. And since my 6 year old daughter helped me come up with my final choice for an avatar I decided to write this post in the form of a Child’s Story, "Goldilocks and the Three Bears".

Image by Super Dave Chen

TheNanny612 and the Three Avatars

TheNanny612 was a Young Lady who spent much of her days Social Networking. She had her own land in her part of the Web 2.0 World.

Normally this Social Media Lady would had been content to go about her usual Social Networking, but on this day she chose instead to cut off her long curly hair. Knowing that once she did this she would have to perform the duty of choosing the right avatar for her part of the Web 2.0 World named Social Desire.

It was on this day that TheNanny612 Avatar Journey began.

TheNanny612 didn’t think the duty of choosing an avatar would be a difficult one. After all, what is the big deal, really? An avatar simply is a picture to help members of Online Communities know who you are…. is that really such a big deal?

So, TheNanny612 simply had her picture taken a few times with a cell phone. She chose the best of the batch of pics, cropped it and sized it perfectly. She made each picture into different sizes to easily accommodate the different requirements at different Social Networking Communities. The smallest Avatar size is 50×50 for Sphinn and StumbleUpon uses a 475×475 on its About page.

TheNanny612 Avatar #1

475 x 475	50 X 50

She really liked this picture, but it was so dark. She didn’t realize how dark until she had it resized to fit Sphinn’s 50×50 Avatar requirement. The size Avatar for Sphinn is so small & so dark that it is terribly difficult to recognize who the picture is of….. That will never do.

TheNanny612 sighed as she really thought this was going to be simple. "Oh well.", she said as she moved on to the next stop.

She took a look at the first picture to see what the problem was and came up with a few of things.

To dark.
Little Contrast. TheNanny612’s dark hair against the dark chair. There was absolutely no contrast.
The picture was taken with a Cell phone. The quality of cell phone pictures aren’t always good enough to work with.

So, TheNanny612 decided that she needed to do things differently. She decided to do everything completely opposite from what she did last time.

She dressed in a white blouse and sat on a light rug in front of a cherry stained door. This is how the picture looked in its largest and smallest forms:

TheNanny612 Avatar #2

475 x 475	50 X 50

TheNanny612 was initially happy with this photograph. She likes the black and white look and the contrast is nice. But, notice how the picture changes when it is made smaller. The change in size makes it difficult to recognize that its TheNanny612 at all. She began to think that there will be no 50×50 avatar that will be easy to recognize, but she knew that wasn’t true. After all, her last 50×50 avatar was easy to recognize.

So, TheNanny612 went back on her search for the Perfect Avatar…. the Avatar that was "Just Right."

The problems with the 2nd Avatar?? There were a few…

It’s a lovely shot large, but when made smaller it is difficult to recognize.
The picture is simply to light. The black and white look washes TheNanny612 out. She will not stand out compared to others which is very important in Social Networking.
The contrast problem in the 1st photograph caused TheNanny612 to dress in light colors, but this did nothing for the photograph either.

TheNanny612 was truly frustrated. She asked out loud, "Why is this so hard?" All of a sudden it came to her…. she needed to figure out what made her original Avatar Memorable.

What made the Original TheNanny612 Avatar Memorable

An Unusual Head shot
Sepia - I didn’t use Black & White….. Sepia added a bit of color.
Side Angle
Not the entire head
Nothing much else in the background.

More determined than ever TheNanny612 decided to stick with what seemed to work with her original avatar. The most important thing to her was that the avatar needed to look just as good small as it did large. And, up until this point that had been TheNanny612’s struggle. She needed to stop posing so much & get back to basics…. get back to what worked for her in the past.

TheNanny612 decided to hand the camera to her 6 year old daughter and allow her daughter to snap a few random shots. Little did she know the perfect avatar would be taken by the young child.

TheNanny612 went through all the photographs taken by her daughter that day. She came across one that she felt would be a perfect fit if cropped just right. This is what she came up with:

TheNanny612 Avatar #3

475 x 475	50 X 50

The first first Avatar was too dark, The 2nd Avatar was too light, and the 3rd Avatar was just right!!

With each Avatar mistake TheNanny612 learned something and the final Avatar was the nicest in all the Land.

The Moral of this story…

Sometimes things don’t go well the first time around or even the 2nd. But, as long as you make each a learning experience then the outcome is usually good one.

The End.

Posted in Humor, Social Bookmarking, Social Media, Social Media Marketing, Social Networking, Sphinn, StumbleUpon, Tips and Tutorials, Uncategorized, Web 2.0, Web 2.0 Basics | 12 Comments »

The ABCs of Social Media

Wednesday, June 11th, 2008 |

Social Desire will be featuring Guest Posts for the next few weeks. Today’s Featured Guest Post is by Mark Dykeman.

Image by Steve & Jemma Copley

Everyone’s got a Top Ten list, an 8 step guide, or some other how-to post to succeeding in social media.

This isn’t one of those posts. Not exactly. Not really.

OK, maybe a little bit.

What I’ve done is to take each letter of the alphabet and try to find one or two words that can be used to describe social media. I’ve tried to cover many of the important points and aspects of social media that I’ve picked up through my own activities. I hope you enjoy and find it useful.

The A – Z listing for social media

Ask/Acquire – social media is a place where we can ask questions and acquire knowledge; there are tons of great resources out there.

Bold – push yourself and test your limits. Try things that might have scared you in the past, either due to lack of confidence or experience. Be bold!

Communicate – it’s all about the conversations.

Demonstrate – show people what you know; help educate them. (note: I was very tempted to use the word "desire" here… )

Evaluate – absorb everything you can, but keep a critical eye open. As you meet different people you’ll gradually get a sense of who knows their stuff and who doesn’t. Don’t accept advice blindly – think it over and make up your own mind.

Friend – "friend" has become a verb in social media, where you give or are given permission to share stuff with other people. It’s a key component of social media, hence the word "social".

Give – contribute to the body of knowledge with your own thoughts, ideas, tips, tricks, critiques, and others. It’s not valuable if you keep it to yourself.

Help – as per give, take the time to do favors for other people. Answer their questions; show examples. You get a lot back from this, even if it doesn’t happen immediately.

Ideas – social media contains some of the coolest parts of higher education – the discussion and refinement of ideas.

Join – if you’re going to be social, join groups that interest you. It’s all about relationships.

Knowledge/Learn – this K and L go together like peanut butter and jelly; learn stuff, increase your knowledge.

Mentor – help a beginner and you could have a good friend for life.

Name – names are important, doubly so in social media. Meet people, remember their names. They’ll do the same for you!

Open – be as transparent as you can. Consider different points of view, as well. Speak respectfully, but freely.

Passion – that burning sensation isn’t an, um, infection, it’s the power of love and desire when you discover something that you love to do.

Question – questions drive social media. Why? Because we all want to find answers!

Reveal – tell the world about yourself to the extent that you feel comfortable to do so. People want to know something about their follow social mediaites!

Share – as with giving, sharing means doing things that don’t just benefit yourself, they benefit other people as well. Give credit where credit is due and share the rewards!

Teach – again, show people what you know and we all benefit.

Understand – this is critical, because language is an imperfect means of communication. It can be very easy to misinterpret someone else’s writing, especially if it hits an emotional hot button. Make sure your reactions are tempered by understanding so that you know what was really meant within a communication.

Vigor – show some life there, sparky!

World – it’s a big world out there and social media will expose you to places that you never knew existed.

X-Ray – look inside and see what’s really happening. Don’t be fooled by exteriors or pretenses. Get the real story.

Yearn – satisfy those self- actual cravings, at least temporarily, through social media participation. But stay hungry – there’s always more.

Zen – practice, be mindful, and learn constantly as a path to enlightenment (of sorts). You might not become a spiritual master, but these principles can still lead to fulfillment in social media.

Social media from A – Z – there it is. I hope you were paying attention because there’s a test coming up!

(Of course, the test never ends… )

If you enjoyed this post check out more of Mark Dykeman’s work at Broadcasting Brain, his blog about communication and social media.

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Merry Christmas

Tuesday, December 25th, 2007 |

Image courtesy of krisdecurtis

I wanted to take a moment to wish all who celebrates a very Merry Christmas. I hope everyone enjoys this time with their families. If it’s anything like my Holiday with my family it will be wonderful food, plenty to drink, great company and lots of time spent putting toys together.

Have a wonderful and safe Holiday. Merry Christmas!!

Shana Albert

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